Balance


And I say, “Oh, that I had wings like a dove!

I would fly away and be at rest.”

Psalm 55: 6

 

David’s wishful desire to escape, to fly far away, is a common one. When life is piling on and the situation at hand is sucking all of the energy out of body and soul, almost everyone wants to get away from it all. Unfortunately, reality is relentless and achieving escape would seem to require something like a pair of supernatural wings to accomplish. So, David is a great source for advice on what it means to continue on with productive life in the grim hostility of this world, for he was faced with it on many occasions and he understood the futility of doing so from within his own skill, strength, and intellect.

 

He also knew that escape was not the answer. Certainly a few minutes of quiet and calm are helpful, and rest is restorative for body and mind, but leaving the issues unresolved is seldom more than a brief vacation from those issues that face us. Instead of spinning his wheels in efforts to devise a plan for that escape, David turns to the Lord and pours out his fears, concerns, and desire for God’s response to it all. Then he calms his own voice and listens to what God says to his heart. The Lord does the same things for us that he did for David. God wants to hear the words that we have to say about our condition and regarding our worries and fears. Although He knows all of this before we speak, it is valuable for our hearts and minds to express it all to Him.

 

What follows is the hard part, for as we wait on God for His response, we need to be quiet and still even as the issues of life are swirling and raging around us. At that moment we are entering into deep trust that God will answer, and we are walking in faith that His response is the best one for us. This is the point in it all when it is natural to take back control and attempt to respond to life on our own. Yet, God says that we should wait on Him and trust in His response. The Lord will bring us through each and every situation and circumstance that we encounter. He does speak and take action for the sake His purposes and to accomplish His plans, and we can find true rest as we settle into the center of God’s will.

 

Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good.

Romans 12: 9

 

This short verse contains three very strong words. The first of those is genuine. It comes from the same root word as does hypocrisy, and it conveys much the same idea. Christ loves us in a manner that is without protective shell, is beyond condition, and is totally committed. We have a natural tendency to get in our own way when it comes to loving in this manner. Our fears and distrust make us withhold ourselves; so, we become actors in a theater of life production rather than being people who give ourselves fully and honestly to the relationships that God brings our way.

 

Next and related to this first idea is the one of abhorring evil. This is a word that literally means “to shudder with horror or hate”. This is that strong reaction that seems to come over a person without warning when something so powerfully wrong is seen and the body just reacts with a reflexive shake, sigh, and tightening of the muscles. Unfortunately, our world is so filled with evil that we get to be insensitive to it. So the Holy Spirit of Christ works to point it out to us. He keeps us sensitive to its presence and calls His people to engage with its sources so that love is not crushed and buried under evil’s debris.

 

Paul then tells us that as a result of embracing genuine love and responding to the evil of this world with a Christ-like sacrificial zeal we are to also “hold fast to what is good.” This is the same word as is used to describe the bond of husband and wife in marriage, which we often hear expressed as “cleave”. We are to be glued to and bonded with what is good. This reality in life starts with Christ as the author and keeper of goodness. It continues in our relationship with God that is made alive in our engagement with this world as defined for us and guided by God’s word and the Holy Spirit. So, genuine love leads us into Christ’s abhorrence of evil with its destructive nature, and all of this is given focus and balance by being wedded to the goodness that is God.

 

 

And above all these put on love which binds everything together in perfect harmony.

Colossians 3: 14

 

There is one and only one totally universal principle; a singular concept that applies to every situation and to all aspects that we encounter in this life. This is the central characteristic that fuels God’s approach to people, and it is the first of His qualities that the Lord desires for us to imitate. Christ comes to us out of and in His love for us. This love is total and without reservation or hesitation. He loves us so much that He did give all to complete the restoration of our relationship with Him.

 

Although we may live in ways that should challenge God’s ability to love us, He does not seem to have any trouble doing it on a continual basis. On the other hand, I know that it is not so easy to truly love others. I may want to do it, I may plan to do it, and I may think that I am doing it; however, the reactions of others and the attitudes that I find in my own heart tell me that intentions and actions are too often disconnected. My motives, motivations, fears, and ego all impede me in actually loving others; thus, they diminish my ability to be the person that Christ calls me to be, for my unloving self does not look very much like my all-loving God.

 

This is why God wants us to aspire to this one quality of His character above all others. Every day and in each interaction that occurs during that day we do get to choose to make those situations ones in which we love others. We can seek Christ’s perspective on how we view the people in our lives and on the way that we respond to them. It is amazing how much impact the simplest of acts can have. When we choose to smile, to appreciate someone, to value their thinking, to share our heart with them, or to carry their load; we are bringing Christ into the lives of people. Choosing to put on the love of Christ means that I need to accept its reality for myself; then, my life is brought into balance. From that perspective, I can bring a touch of God’s healing love to others, and my corner of the world is brought closer to His perfectly harmonious balance.

 

Who has measured the waters in the hollow of his hand and marked off the heavens with a span, enclosed the dust of the earth in a measure and weighed the mountains in scales and the hills in a balance?

Isaiah 40: 12

 

Perspective can be frustratingly hard to find. Scale, especially when it comes to what is important, is often obscured by flawed reason and bias. We hold up our measuring tool to the dawn in order to grasp the potential that the day holds, and we are defeated before we start to journey through it. As the clock moves along we lay out the template of our past as a map to follow down the road known as today; yet, many of the turns that we take end up in wrong places.

 

At this point it becomes natural and easy to blame the journey itself for the struggle. We think that whatever failures and hardships we have endured and are encountering are the result of bad choices, poor decisions, or misdirection. This is the point where people often want to blame others for the poor input that we were given or for the evil intent that caused them to send us along this path. Yet, ultimately, we need to own our part in it all. Also, it helps to consider God’s role in the life that we are living.

 

The Lord probably didn’t choose the difficult place that we find ourselves for us, but He is in it with us. So, God can provide us with accurate tools for assessment, and His word lays out a plan for navigating through everything that is before us. The obstacle that stands as an unclimbable mountain before us is like a grain of sand from God’s vantage point. The flood of fear and doubt that is threatening to drown us is swallowed up by the Lord’s reason and peace. All of life can be brought into perspective when we turn our day over to God in humble submission to His will and in prayerful contemplation of His word.

You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.

Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord God is an everlasting rock.

Isaiah 26: 3, 4

 

How many aspects of your life can you describe as perfect? Tough question, isn’t it? Most of us, when honestly considering something like this, won’t come up with much that doesn’t have some flaws, an aspect that falls short, or some way that we throw the balance and the symmetry off. I guess that, in fact, this lack of true perfection is one of the ways that God reminds us of how much we need Him and of what a mess that people have made of what started out as perfect.

 

Solid, unchanging, imperishable, and trustworthy, these describe the Lord. Concerned, caring, involved, and loving, these also describe Him. God’s viewpoint is the only one that is not obscured by the smoke and the dust and the clutter of living in this world. God’s perspective is the only one that is totally without a self-serving aspect. Jesus proved His total trustworthiness continually while He lived with us, and since then the Spirit of Christ has never failed to do the same.

 

Peace, perfect peace, is a wonderful state to desire. It is a quality of the heart and of the mind where there is a wonderful balance. It is not a blissed out state where all of the issues and challenges of life are ignored, and it is certainly not an approach in which I take total control and use my own strength to drive my way through everything. It is achieved through staying focused on God’s will and seeking His perspective. God’s peace is found in the heart and it radiates through the mind to the rest of the body. It calms the racing heart and it stills the anxious moment. Perfect peace is founded upon trusting that the Lord has all of the answers for me, that His love for me is absolute, and that He will not let me truly fall.

 

Before things start to get out of control with stress and anxiety increasing, I need to spend time focusing on Christ, talking with my Lord and seeking His will and His orientation for my mind and my heart. Then when the events of the day start to get worrisome, I can stop the troubled thoughts and take the time that I need to let the Lord’s peace return.

 

Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good.

Romans 12: 9

 

 

God looks at the way that we deal with the personal integrity issue of truth telling, and He tells us to do it like He does. I know from experience, experiences that are especially true during times when I have been trying to delude myself, that the Holy Spirit speaks to my heart and to my mind in ways that are honest and accurate and in ways that can knock me to my knees when needed. He also speaks the most uplifting words of praise, recognition, and encouragement. God is the creator of the concept of truth, He is the source of all that is true, and He always tells the truth.

 

As we are called to live in the righteousness of Christ, we are directed to treat truth in the same manner. Yet, notice that there is a striking balance in this verse. Godly genuineness is found in that balance. The human tendency can be to define “telling the truth” as always pointing out the sin, the error, or the failing in the lives of others, and that is partially true. The challenge that most of us face in the actual practice of this sort of truth telling comes in loving the recipient of this truth with the absolute and tangible love of Christ during the process. As I have experienced as both a giver and a recipient of such truth, we are less likely to define truth telling as always seeking to see the good, which is the Godlikeness, in those around us.

 

Therefore, God tells us to love others by telling them the truth. This is the truth as the Spirit of Christ shows it to us and as His word reveals it to us. Truth is also expressed by seeing, encouraging, and embracing the beauty of Christ’s love that we see alive in others. In order to live with the type of personal integrity that comes from the Creator of Truth, we need to do all of these things equally, with balanced perspective. In order to love in the total and genuine manner that God does we need to imitate Jesus and detest the sin that crushes the life out of people while never hating the person. Christ calls us to hold on tightly to all of the good that we can find in others and encourage its growth, just like He does.

Whoever pursues righteousness and kindness

will find life, righteousness, and honor.

Proverbs 21: 21

 

There is an old idea in the world of sports. What you focus your eyes on is what you will hit. So, if you are shooting a basketball, be sure to look intently at the basket. Likewise, a pitcher in baseball sets his eyes on the catcher’s glove. The same sort of concept is true in most other areas of endeavor as well. In a real sense this is what setting goals is about in business, families, and other organizations. We determine what we desire, and we state that as a goal in order to remain true to our intended course of action and to achieving the stated end without getting distracted and drifting off of that path.

 

The same sort of thinking is valid in our spiritual lives as well. In fact, I think that setting the right goals in this area is even more important than it is in these others. However, we often struggle with understanding and establishing the sorts of goals that God wants for us. God is more concerned with where our eyes are focused than He is in the number of times that we do something or than the frequency of an action or activity. The Lord wants to be the One who we set our eyes upon as we go through our days. His nature and character provide us with that perfect image of the person that we should be. In Jesus we see the living embodiment of all that makes us truly human and that sets us apart from all of the rest of Creation. So, Christ leads us into living as people who are truly made in God’s image.

 

Going before us we see a man who lived as God intended us all to live. Although Christ’s perfection and sinlessness is beyond our capacity and capability to achieve, we can desire and seek to live in a manner that continually sets aside more and more of our old selves and that is filled by Christ’s Spirit with His nature. We are called to live righteously. Thus we need to know God’s truth and seek after it in all areas of our lives, and we must be committed to its highest calling without regard to personal cost and without compromise. At the same time, Christ wants us to be as focused and committed to living as kind, gracious, and understanding people. We need to be people who have strong characters and soft, warm hands to embrace and to sooth people who are in pain as a result of sin’s relentless terror campaign. So, as we set our eyes on Christ, we will hit the target that is His perfect will.

 

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