Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.

Colossians 4: 6

 

Shout it out! This is what our world seems to do with great vigor and zeal. People make their message known in ways that are clear and that do not lack for an aura of dominance. That is the point, I believe. In a loud and graceless world, the intensity of the volume in combination with the shock value of the language is being used more and more of the time as the starting point for a form of discourse that seems intended to shut off dialogue and overwhelm real listening. God inspired the writers of Scripture to mention our speech or the nature of our words so many times for a reason. That is because it does matter.

 

The way that we address others is a marker of the attitudes that we hold in the heart and of the way that our mind has been trained to think of people and situations. When we use derogatory terms, foul language, and negative stereotypes in describing anyone, we are operating on the exact opposite side of human nature from the way that God describes as righteous. The words that we select to use can be tools for constructive interchange or they can be intended to build oneself up while diminishing the other. One of these approaches can lead to peacemaking, relationship building, and demonstrates the Godly qualities that He places within people. The other devalues relationship while pouring fuel upon the fire of disagreement and difference, and it denies the existence of the God-image in others and in the speaker.

 

There is another way to conduct the business of this world. We have seen it portrayed by Christ and by Godly people throughout the narrative of the Bible. Although they felt passionate about causes and were driven to frustration, fear, and anger in the course of doing God’s will, they mostly remained gracious in the words that they used and made bringing others, even adversaries, closer rather than driving them away. The sort of calm and peace at the heart level that leads to measured and edifying speech in the most intense of situations is a marker of a person’s relationship with God. The devolution of the language that is used in our public and private interchanges needs to stop. Each of us needs to search our own hearts and seek God’s reckoning with the way that we think and then express ourselves. We also need to stop accepting mean-spirited, course, and derogatory expressions n others. Language is a gift from God; let’s use it to bring the flavor of Him into our world.

 

 

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